unexpected leave of absence

by **iwasperdition** » Mon May 12, 2014 8:52 am

I've shared with some of you one of the reasons I haven't played tankpit other then a few hours the last 6 months. My mother has cancer and has been going through chemo since late last year. This is her second go around with cancer in the last few years. She took a turn for the worse last week Monday/Tuesday and has been in the hospital since then having problems getting enough oxygen. Friday she turned the corner and her breathing has been down hill since then, and I've spent the last 70 some odd hours in a hospital room. Currently she is on IV drips for her pain, anxiety and comfort. Death is a matter of when not if. My family is close knit and this has been very hard on us, my dad especially. Say a prayer for him if you think of him.

Sorry for the wall o' text.

by **weekend_nachos** » Mon May 12, 2014 9:25 am

Dude you should never have to apologize for an absence from this cesspool on any important matter in your life at all. I know how shitty that road of Cancer is and losing a close family member. Just know i got you if you need anything brother, and I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.

by **tournamentJESUS** » Mon May 12, 2014 9:27 am

perdition, my friend, i cast my blessings upon you and your folks.

by **delivery** » Mon May 12, 2014 10:29 am

Stay strong man, I'll say a prayer for you and your family.

by **piccolo** » Mon May 12, 2014 11:11 am

sorry to hear about this my grandmother has been battling cancer for a few years and she got sick last winter and i didnt think that she was gonna make it never loose hope

by **Frost** » Mon May 12, 2014 12:33 pm

Although it is very unfortunately what you, your family, and your mother are going threw, she will ultimately end up in a better place. My condolences for you all and your mother will be in my prayers.

If you need someone to talk to im here bud. Shoot me a pm and ill give u my #.

by **silientsnake1124** » Mon May 12, 2014 12:38 pm

I had cancer, its a rough road. Hope she recovers quickly!

by **Jordann** » Mon May 12, 2014 6:11 pm

Good luck Troy. I've really enjoyed your presence since you've came back.

by **HurleY** » Mon May 12, 2014 11:51 pm

your family will be in my thoughts. may a higher power grant your family strength.

by **SIX DAY WAR** » Tue May 13, 2014 1:55 am

Stay strong. Your family will be in my prayers ,and we will be here when you return.

by **Warrior** » Tue May 13, 2014 5:15 am

Sad to hear this news my dear friend.Keep positive,god works in mysterious ways. May your mother win this battle.Let me know if you want to get some things off your chest bro,im here for ya.

by **wardizzle** » Tue May 13, 2014 2:36 pm

Sorry to hear the news, Troy. Family should always come first, regardless of what activities you're involved in, whether they are professional or a hobby. Opportunities are always there if you look for them but family is only here once in a lifetime.

I hope you all have a good transition through this tough period and that you use what time you have left to create beautiful memories that last a lifetime and to remember together all the great things you have been through.

by **cujo** » Tue May 13, 2014 5:27 pm

<3

Be in touch bro, lemme hear some thangs.

by **iwasperdition** » Tue May 13, 2014 7:04 pm

Thank you all for the support. Mom passed away yesterday a few hours after I wrote the post. She was a fighter until the very end.

by **silientsnake1124** » Tue May 13, 2014 7:12 pm

by **shermanfrombf** » Tue May 13, 2014 7:34 pm

...no

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I'm so sorry man, I know there's nothing any of us can do or say to make you feel better about your situation, but you have the condolences of the entirety of BFunity in your time of loss and mourning.
I have every faith she was an honest, loving, and hardworking mother and I'm truly sorry to hear about this horrible tragedy to strike your family...
R.I.P. Mama Troy. You live on in the heart(s) and memories of the child/ren you bore in life. The legacy you leave behind is the bloodline you continued and raised up.
Your work here seems to have been destined to end. Goodnight Sweet Princess, you've left us to soon. Here's to you.

:heroic:

May you be accepted into your ideal afterlife and rest in eternal peace until you're re-united with your children once more. :heroic:

by **Frost** » Tue May 13, 2014 8:26 pm

Damn troy so sorry to hear that. Although the pain will be hard to deal with for a long time, there will come a time youll be able to smile and laugh at all the great times you shared with your mother. Much love man. Stay strong.

by **delivery** » Tue May 13, 2014 10:36 pm

Sorry to hear that man. Stay strong for your dad and the rest of your family

by **SIX DAY WAR** » Wed May 14, 2014 2:22 am

We all send you, and your family our thoughts of peace and courage.

by **killer** » Thu May 15, 2014 6:27 am

Terribly sorry to hear about this, Troyman. I wish you and your family the best. :,c

by **iwasperdition** » Thu May 15, 2014 6:44 pm

Thank you guys. Its been a long couple of days and holy crap does it cost a lot to set up a funeral.

by **Ms_Lucy** » Thu May 15, 2014 11:31 pm

No words can express my sorrow for you . My blessings to you and your late morther. God bless her .

by **WHO** » Mon May 19, 2014 6:23 pm

I feel for you man, sorry. My dad had cancer twice but pulled through, My grandfather had it years back but didn't pull through. :/